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zhai

zhai

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Filipino looking for information about India

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Filipino

Lives in las pinas city

Speaks tagalog, a little bit of korean and japanese, spanish and fluent in elgish

Registration: 17 August 2011

About

i'm zhai, 24 years old, living in las pinas city phippines. currently working as teacher in one of the montesorri school here in the philippines, handling a multilevel class (diagnosed genius, da vinci, regular and special kids at a time)i'm a jack of all trade. maybe because i am just curios of doing things and to discover new things i know i do not have yet.
Interests: books, histories, dances, nguages, decoding, animes, musics

My expat journey

philippinesindia
uttar pradesh, India

uttar pradesh, India

i actualy just planning still to move there becaus eof my boyfriend,a nd i am not really sure yet..i still have to fix and to do many things but i will surely like and love to live in that country where the one i love is living. but there is a problem i think, the reason also why i registered up into this blog is to post up my problem about my indian boyfriend..since monday and if i can still recall its been so long since we keep on discussing about this thing.. just yesterday when he told me that when i cant coem in india he will going to marry other girl which was selected or shoudl i called fix marriage done by two parties.his family and the other family.he told me many things and really compare what he have to what i have i mean is teh culture here and the culture in that country... like the respect and following the parents which in filipino tradition we also have it, with really strong bind to family and respect to elders, parents.... he told me that if his parents will force him to marry other girl he would have too, sad thing is that, he is i think liking it.. i love him so much and as i am telling to him, just by words is not enough for him to know how much i really care and i love him..it takes lifetime to let him know and make it feel.. now im really so sad, i was asking for a help from him but i guess he doesnt want too.. i have explained to him everything about my family, which i have and what we have... but in his part none of his family i have ever know not even in any social account, while me???he knows my brothers and sister. i really doesnt know what to do now, after he told me the difference of language, traditions and culture in india and in the philppines..i am really wondering...cause for me if you love one thing and most a person, things will not be a destruction but instead an inpiration. i am really nothing against to indians, i actually appreciate tehm and started studyinga nd trying to educate myself about indian culture and traditions, i know it is not easy but it is whta i like i am doing this for, for teh sake of my love for him which i think he d\cant see it and feel it.. i am wondering what will happen, cause soon he will be marrying other girl from india..really it is sad thing but the most sad part is that he do not wnat to do anythng for me, for US.
teacher, private tutor
maybe the taj mahal i really wanna see

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zhai created a thread
14 years ago

is it really matter in india the difference of culture and language ?

who among of us do believe that if you are loving someone who are going to accept all the things on him/her, no matter what he/she was. different culture, different in language and so on and so fourth. i am actually a filipina, i got two indian ... Read More