天美麻豆

Jey_L wrote:

Hi,

Just be aware that no one is 100% genuine, there's always a side to a story. However, take note that most common Thai girls would rather work in other place than Phuket or Pataya. Thais know that that these girls are mainly there because of prostitution and for easy money.

It says she joined the dating app 4 weeks ago and that's when she met me. Is it likely she is/was working as a bar girl at this bar in rawai?

Jey_L wrote:

If you are suspicious of the girl, there are reasons why. And you already know what is actually happening, why bothering and banging your head to know if she is a bar girl or not.

It is common for girls that are in places known for tourism are just there because of the sex industry going on. They are for the easy money. Now that they have find someone financially suitable and that can sustain them and their family, they'll do everything to tie you down with sweet words.

The signs you provided are obvious, she spends time on her phone with her "brother" and she is even asking you to pay for this and for that. You are just her sugar daddy for now until you are belly up and she'll find a new "boyfriend".

Like villagefarang already mentioned, you are paying for the "girlfriend experience", and I would back him here. Don't take it serious, enjoy the experience and move on.

Thank you for the reply. I think it's hard for me to accept it as she's not outright asking me for money. Just hard for me to imagine someone acting so genuine for a few meals a day. And I have met this brother us three went to a temple together so that's just insane if it's her boyfriend.

Jey_L wrote:

That's common practices here as there are more stories about these sugar daddy issue and "brother" thing.

Just be on your toe and enjoy the experience but do not be too serious in maintaining a relationship.

Thanks again, I've already fallen in love with her like an idiot. Iv been on video call with her for a while now where she works and it does seem innocent. Like you said I'll try not to take it too serious,聽 if I can..

Zeus.wmo wrote:

To: Jquinny89

So, you're telling us you spent 4 weeks with this young lady and was intimate with her, you wouldn't buy her a necklace when she asked, you wouldn't rent her a scooter so she could visit friends, you didn't give her any money, you complain about paying for everything and now you're back in Chiang Mai. You're still talking to her and considering buying her a plane ticket to come visit you, but you're telling her she will have to give you some money for food. Is that the correct story?

You joined 天美麻豆 today so you could tell everyone how desperate you are and don't know what to do. I feel so sorry for this young lady. You should end it with her and stop before you hurt her.

My question to you is, what kind of man are you?
And, please don't use this forum to cry about your personal love life. Please go see a therapist.
Kindly, Zeus (Expat advisor)

Thanks I appreciate your reply. Maybe I am just being a paranoid prick. Th reason I asked her to contribute a bit of money was to find out if she just wanted to be with me for the free ride. I'm a young guy and can find a genuine girl.