pat hixon
@pathixon48
American looking for information about Vietnam
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Registration: 13 May 2014
Old men with young Vietnamese wives/girlfriends by pathixon48
How is it working out?
Said very well Brother.. and I like believing you are exactly right.. most VN women are the treasure that you and I thought they were... if it seems like too many are not, it鈥檚 going to be because there are too many bar girls and hookers in ... Read More
Old men with young Vietnamese wives/girlfriends by pathixon48
How is it working out?
We have some similarities to your story Ph霉ng is from Long An in the Delta. I am 33 years older than her. She also tells me about standing outside the school and screaming and crying till they would sometimes let her come in anyway. She has ... Read More
Old men with young Vietnamese wives/girlfriends by pathixon48
How is it working out?
And I don鈥檛 think I ever heard a story like that where she didn鈥檛 finally leave him anyway... and usually for some loser... Read More
Vietnam girl only marries me either..... by Huan07
She told me she will only marry me if i let her work in KTV lounge for 2 years to save up for business venture and settle her financial woes. After 2 years she will stop and ask me to go vietnam stay with her. Or i give her monthly $1k sgd monthly ...
I had to accept an unconventional lifestyle... it鈥檚 not perfect but Its better than divorced and alone and broke. I accepted and now I am happier than I ever was before. I made all the mistakes of the old fool.. but I am fortunate that my ... Read More
loving a Vietnamese girl by jimcantrell65
I have been interested in Vietnam and in meeting and marrying a Vietnamese girl for a long time. I am fifty years old and have had two very bad marriages. About six months ago I started talking with a girl on Facebook and as foolish as it may sound, ...
How about an update jim? Read More
Vietnam girl only marries me either..... by Huan07
She told me she will only marry me if i let her work in KTV lounge for 2 years to save up for business venture and settle her financial woes. After 2 years she will stop and ask me to go vietnam stay with her. Or i give her monthly $1k sgd monthly ...
Said about as well as possible... Read More
Vietnam girl only marries me either..... by Huan07
She told me she will only marry me if i let her work in KTV lounge for 2 years to save up for business venture and settle her financial woes. After 2 years she will stop and ask me to go vietnam stay with her. Or i give her monthly $1k sgd monthly ...
Yes; a bad ending for you for sure... yet there are so many better choices out there for you! Read More
Old men with young Vietnamese wives/girlfriends by pathixon48
How is it working out?
All so interesting sir!.. I want to read every word! Read More
How do I know if a Vietnamese girl likes me? by GuestPoster 156
My best friend from American said he had a beautiful 28 year old cousin in Ho Chi Minh City that I should meet. I took him up on his offer and started texting her a few months prior to my trip. I arrived 2 weeks ago and so far have gone out to 3 ...
I think it鈥檚 obvious enough he chemistry just isn鈥檛 right between you 2 regardless of the Uber etc.. you should salvage the time you have left by Trinh to just find a new one... at any rate, get your mind on something else rather than ... Read More
Meeting a vietnamese girl for the first time, what should I expect ? by timmytran
Hi there, I am a vietnamese american guy living in the united states. I am being introduced to a vietnamese girl by my relatives in vietnam and I want to know what should I expect when I meet them. She is my potential fiancee and I want to be able ...
I was having the same feeling... it sounded more like he was already proposing marriage when he hadn't even met her yet!.. Read More
Troubled and Confused by laststanding
Just wanting to get some opinions from people out there. So here is my situation and please feel free to express opinions. Ok here it is and see ! A year and a half ago I married my Vietnamese girlfriend of 4 years. Our relationship and experience ...
I forgot about that.. most marry after coming to US but he said they already married her there.. 馃槏... what a mess now Read More
Meeting a vietnamese girl for the first time, what should I expect ? by timmytran
Hi there, I am a vietnamese american guy living in the united states. I am being introduced to a vietnamese girl by my relatives in vietnam and I want to know what should I expect when I meet them. She is my potential fiancee and I want to be able ...
when you are taking her to dinner, plan on taking the whole extended family! all 30-50 of them! (of course you pay for all of them. what a stupid question)... and keep doing this for as long as you are there... they generally like their beer, ... Read More
loving a Vietnamese girl by jimcantrell65
I have been interested in Vietnam and in meeting and marrying a Vietnamese girl for a long time. I am fifty years old and have had two very bad marriages. About six months ago I started talking with a girl on Facebook and as foolish as it may sound, ...
a sure sign of when a VN woman really cares about you is like you said: she will always be asking you questions about: when you ate last, what you ate, what would you like for supper, what should I get for you at the market... she may seem like ... Read More
Troubled and Confused by laststanding
Just wanting to get some opinions from people out there. So here is my situation and please feel free to express opinions. Ok here it is and see ! A year and a half ago I married my Vietnamese girlfriend of 4 years. Our relationship and experience ...
this also seems like the right to start doin a little shopping on your own for a new relationship... we all know the best way to get over the last failed relationship is to get another one going... and I think we all know not to judge all VN women ... Read More
Old men with young Vietnamese wives/girlfriends by pathixon48
How is it working out?
I'm amazed at how many VN women say they don't like VN men as husbands... they say VN men just consider it a time homered pastime to beat their women, stay drunk, smoke a lot, refuse to do any household work... and I've seen it in ... Read More
Old men with young Vietnamese wives/girlfriends by pathixon48
How is it working out?
Could you all work it out to maybe... a few months each year in VN?.. looks like to me that's what most families like that do.. Read More
Old men with young Vietnamese wives/girlfriends by pathixon48
How is it working out?
Diazo: I think we are all wondering how you managed to stick yourself with the meanest *** out there... none of these flags were evident before you picked her? 馃槱 Read More
Old men with young Vietnamese wives/girlfriends by pathixon48
How is it working out?
This story is incredible!.. like a great movie that is too interesting to be real life.. that is, until the reality of how it ends finally comes... you 2 have had a great and wonderful lives together my friend. Most of us can only dream about the ... Read More
Is This Insane???? by Diazo
Has anyone married to a Vietnamese women with whom they had a child had the women refuse to cooperate in getting the child a Certificate of Birth Abroad ( American Father) because she thought the father would steal the child. Mine has done just ...
Send relatively small amounts to hold you ex's interest while you subtly hint that you have much more available (regardless whether that's true) and your best best defense is your good offense... subtly let her know that you are finally ... Read More
Old men with young Vietnamese wives/girlfriends by pathixon48
How is it working out?
Very interesting response... your experience shows us all.. if you pick up bar girls, then know what to expect.. but there are still very good women in VN! Read More
Old men with young Vietnamese wives/girlfriends by pathixon48
How is it working out?
I'm a 68 year old US man with a 35 year old Vietnamese Wife Read More
Old men with young Vietnamese wives/girlfriends
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What should I do for my marriage problem? by BinhDuongLee
I am Korean, born in 1983, I have been married with a Vietnamese woman for 2 years now. (+1 year of dating) and we live in Vietnam now. She is everything I've ever wanted and I thought I totally devoted to her. I was happy every single day ...
And Subtly let her know you can be attracted to other women... since you will have nothing left to lose with her... if it has no effect on her, you know the relationship cannot be saved and then you really should start getting your mind on finding ... Read More
What should I do for my marriage problem? by BinhDuongLee
I am Korean, born in 1983, I have been married with a Vietnamese woman for 2 years now. (+1 year of dating) and we live in Vietnam now. She is everything I've ever wanted and I thought I totally devoted to her. I was happy every single day ...
I think yours is the best and most realistic advise.. if he cowers, collapses emotionally, especially if he starts crying when They talk, she will lose any respect she had for him.. his best and only chance is to show her he is a strong, stable man ... Read More
Safety in Vietnam by Christine
Hi, We would like to talk about a sensitive but important topic: do you feel safe in Vietnam? How would you define the level of safety in the country? Can you walk safely during the day and at night without any fear? Do you think there ...
I see posts just about every day of someone getting robbed, their motor scooter getting stolen.. Every woman I chat with tells me they have been mugged more than once.. And yes Vietnamese criminals have a reputation for usually robbing the small ... Read More
Safety in Vietnam by Christine
Hi, We would like to talk about a sensitive but important topic: do you feel safe in Vietnam? How would you define the level of safety in the country? Can you walk safely during the day and at night without any fear? Do you think there ...
Some pretty obvious flaws sir.. Il point out a couple.. Guns don't kill the people.. The people with the guns kill people. Sort of ironic that you can get by more less comfortably there... The Vietnamese can't get by on their's, they ... Read More
vietnam girlfriend by jacksamau
hi, I am wondering how to see my Vietnamese girlfriend. She works at a food place evenings. I often meet her after and during the day visit her sister on bike etc. So here is the question. I haven't even kissed her yet let alone anthing further. ...
Probably the best advice ever been given on the subject! Many very useful little bits here.. Read More
When a girl says : <insert your name > dang ghet ? by @ussieDave
Been talking to this girl (26) , who we share a mutual friend (who has been an Australian male friend of mine for many years - he actually put us in contact) pretty much every day for close to 8 months now. Viber, Zalo, face to face on skype etc ...
I go through all these little superstitious taboos with my vn wife too, but I tend to find them more interesting than annoying Read More
How to get over my ex vietnamese girlfriend by davidtran0394
Back in 2011 I used to date a vietnamese american girl named Huong and she was my first girlfriend I ever had. She had such an amazing and cute personality. We've dated for a couple of months and she and I broke up in october of that year. It ...
Best cure for getting over any woman is always get moved in to the next one! Read More
My vietnamese GF is pregnant - how much it costs for pregnancy in HCMC by MarcusKS
Hi , I,m from Malaysia and my Vietnamese GF called me this morning that she is pregnant ! After she has a pregnancy test and yes she is ... I was so happy because we will have a baby soon . But i need some advise from expats . How much does it cost ...
LMAO!.. About the only thing left without a specific charge .. Enjoy it while you can. I'm sure the government will soon figure out a way to tax every attempt made to get pregnant! Read More
what is true love with Vietnamese girl? by nnthuy154
I incidently read a story about a British man maried with a dirty Vietnamese girl. I fell very ashamed because I am Vietnamese too. You should agree that you may meet the good ones or the bad ones in every country, but especially the ones origined ...
J really liked finally hearing one VN person say we should all stop trying to categorize every person into either a Vietnamese or a foreigner! Very good! Read More
what is true love with Vietnamese girl? by nnthuy154
I incidently read a story about a British man maried with a dirty Vietnamese girl. I fell very ashamed because I am Vietnamese too. You should agree that you may meet the good ones or the bad ones in every country, but especially the ones origined ...
i see you are new to the blog.. I'm so glad you are with us looking forward to reading your views.. Read More
Reasons for moving to Vietnam by peterpan75
Hi Everyone, Just curious what other peoples reasons for moving to Vietnam have been. I've visited a couple times and am contemplating really trying it out next winter. I'll start with my reasons. In a transitional stage of life, just turned 39. ...
Its suppos"ed to to be understood no vn works during " tea time" Read More
Reasons for moving to Vietnam by peterpan75
Hi Everyone, Just curious what other peoples reasons for moving to Vietnam have been. I've visited a couple times and am contemplating really trying it out next winter. I'll start with my reasons. In a transitional stage of life, just turned 39. ...
And I have heard the VN complaining about how hard it is to get any service done for such a big gap in the middle of the day.. Read More
Reasons for moving to Vietnam by peterpan75
Hi Everyone, Just curious what other peoples reasons for moving to Vietnam have been. I've visited a couple times and am contemplating really trying it out next winter. I'll start with my reasons. In a transitional stage of life, just turned 39. ...
I love hearing those roosters.. And just enjoying all the insect sounds in the early mornings.. They even have this loudspeaker public information system that starts broadcasting every morning at 5:00.. But only for a few minutes. All the village ... Read More
what is true love with Vietnamese girl? by nnthuy154
I incidently read a story about a British man maried with a dirty Vietnamese girl. I fell very ashamed because I am Vietnamese too. You should agree that you may meet the good ones or the bad ones in every country, but especially the ones origined ...
And a puppy is always a great Chick Magnet! Read More
what is true love with Vietnamese girl? by nnthuy154
I incidently read a story about a British man maried with a dirty Vietnamese girl. I fell very ashamed because I am Vietnamese too. You should agree that you may meet the good ones or the bad ones in every country, but especially the ones origined ...
And I almost forgot .. She will finally leave him anyway for a younger Prince Charming who may not have as much $ but can make her pants just fall off her without even him trying to.. Read More
what is true love with Vietnamese girl? by nnthuy154
I incidently read a story about a British man maried with a dirty Vietnamese girl. I fell very ashamed because I am Vietnamese too. You should agree that you may meet the good ones or the bad ones in every country, but especially the ones origined ...
Yes the $ can get her to marry the old ugly fat guy with a pension.. But she does not love him or even respect him for helping her to a better life than she would have had. And she doesn't respect him for doing it. In fact she hates him... For ... Read More
what is true love with Vietnamese girl? by nnthuy154
I incidently read a story about a British man maried with a dirty Vietnamese girl. I fell very ashamed because I am Vietnamese too. You should agree that you may meet the good ones or the bad ones in every country, but especially the ones origined ...
Was a very interesting post and I love your "can do" spirit as we say in the USA... Of course you were exaggerating at least a little: "didn't have anything to eat".. Wish I could do that.. Nevertheless I like your outlook ... Read More
what is true love with Vietnamese girl? by nnthuy154
I incidently read a story about a British man maried with a dirty Vietnamese girl. I fell very ashamed because I am Vietnamese too. You should agree that you may meet the good ones or the bad ones in every country, but especially the ones origined ...
Is it also because the parents want every child they have to stay right there working in the rice because they all contribute to the support of the parents.. So if a child goes out to seek their own fortune that child may well be more successful but ... Read More
Why do VN's stare at Foreigners VN wive's? by bluenz
What are VN's thinking when they stare at a Foreigners VN wife , ( or daughter, or any VN female accompanying them )? I get all sorts of looks, some happy , some down right disgusting. Input from some VN's would be interesting.
I'm surprised.. I have read before that a "crossbred child". Is discriminated inside VN anyway.. But I am pleased to hear someone finally say that the " odd couple" can finally get some degree of acceptance in society if it ... Read More
Why do VN's stare at Foreigners VN wive's? by bluenz
What are VN's thinking when they stare at a Foreigners VN wife , ( or daughter, or any VN female accompanying them )? I get all sorts of looks, some happy , some down right disgusting. Input from some VN's would be interesting.
Well they can be brutally honest at times when they should be using a little tact.... And then they can be sarcastic.. For instance: my wife will tell me that a woman just said a out us. "Good couple" but she meant it sarcastically.. Then ... Read More
Why do VN's stare at Foreigners VN wive's? by bluenz
What are VN's thinking when they stare at a Foreigners VN wife , ( or daughter, or any VN female accompanying them )? I get all sorts of looks, some happy , some down right disgusting. Input from some VN's would be interesting.
I'm still confused though.. Do the smiles mean the aporove ? Or are they just think it looks ridiculous? Or what?.. Cause everything has to have a double or hidden meaning right? Read More
Why do VN's stare at Foreigners VN wive's? by bluenz
What are VN's thinking when they stare at a Foreigners VN wife , ( or daughter, or any VN female accompanying them )? I get all sorts of looks, some happy , some down right disgusting. Input from some VN's would be interesting.
Like adult males wearing shorts in VN... Read More
Why do VN's stare at Foreigners VN wive's? by bluenz
What are VN's thinking when they stare at a Foreigners VN wife , ( or daughter, or any VN female accompanying them )? I get all sorts of looks, some happy , some down right disgusting. Input from some VN's would be interesting.
I mean after all, we are talking about VN right? Read More
Why do VN's stare at Foreigners VN wive's? by bluenz
What are VN's thinking when they stare at a Foreigners VN wife , ( or daughter, or any VN female accompanying them )? I get all sorts of looks, some happy , some down right disgusting. Input from some VN's would be interesting.
If they notice its you and with several different men, then they are convinced you are their prostitute, right? Read More
Why do VN's stare at Foreigners VN wive's? by bluenz
What are VN's thinking when they stare at a Foreigners VN wife , ( or daughter, or any VN female accompanying them )? I get all sorts of looks, some happy , some down right disgusting. Input from some VN's would be interesting.
I never heard if a VN woman who would ever say "I don't give a bleep what you think.".. Supposedly, every VN person is always everyone totally concerned with the perception, whether real or perceived with Social Status more than ... Read More
Why do VN's stare at Foreigners VN wive's? by bluenz
What are VN's thinking when they stare at a Foreigners VN wife , ( or daughter, or any VN female accompanying them )? I get all sorts of looks, some happy , some down right disgusting. Input from some VN's would be interesting.
So then what are they smiling about? Read More
Why do VN's stare at Foreigners VN wive's? by bluenz
What are VN's thinking when they stare at a Foreigners VN wife , ( or daughter, or any VN female accompanying them )? I get all sorts of looks, some happy , some down right disgusting. Input from some VN's would be interesting.
So then what are they smiling about? Read More
vietnam girlfriend by jacksamau
hi, I am wondering how to see my Vietnamese girlfriend. She works at a food place evenings. I often meet her after and during the day visit her sister on bike etc. So here is the question. I haven't even kissed her yet let alone anthing further. ...
I really enjoyed just reading your post. Read More
Why do VN's stare at Foreigners VN wive's? by bluenz
What are VN's thinking when they stare at a Foreigners VN wife , ( or daughter, or any VN female accompanying them )? I get all sorts of looks, some happy , some down right disgusting. Input from some VN's would be interesting.
Your posts are so intertaining.. You must be a really quick typist and spend a lot of time doing this too.. But I'm new here n loving reading it.. I couldn't possibly try to reply to many points you make.. But loving your endless gabines Read More
what is true love with Vietnamese girl? by nnthuy154
I incidently read a story about a British man maried with a dirty Vietnamese girl. I fell very ashamed because I am Vietnamese too. You should agree that you may meet the good ones or the bad ones in every country, but especially the ones origined ...
Everything you said was so true and can be helpful to any man who listens to you before he gets trapped by a VN woman who is often very attractive but but has her own ulterior motives for the relationship.. I have found out the hard way everything ... Read More