
Natallia Slimani-Mercier
@Natallia Slimani
Belarusian expat in China
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Belarusian
Lives in Shenzhen, Guangdong, China
Speaks English
Registration: 10 March 2023
Articles written or translated by Natallia Slimani-Mercier

Starting at a new school used to be about standing in lines, printing folders of documents, and going on campus tours. Today, in many schools, the enrollment process looks very different. Lots of things can be done online – and sometimes the first time you and your child will step foot in the new school will be on the actual first day. For expats and their kids, this is a trend that works in their favor. Because now they can explore, apply, interview, tour, and even enroll in a school before they are even there. Here's how it works.
18 June 2026
The biggest difference between moving counties and moving continents is the distance. Duh, you might think. But it's not only the physical distance itself. It's also how this distance feels. Moving from Spain to Germany is a big life change. But not quite as big as moving from Germany to Brazil. You are now a Transatlantic flight away from everything that you used to know as home. And even if the culture may not be that different, everything else probably is.
17 June 2026
Working in an office can feel really isolating. True, you are surrounded by people. But everyone around you is busy, working on their projects and meeting their deadlines. Take this situation abroad, and you are adding in language barriers, cultural differences, workplace misunderstandings… Before you know it, you may find yourself turning to ChatGPT for social comfort, and liking it. But in this article, we want to explore why human connection in the workplace still matters, especially for expats. And why you absolutely should have a work buddy, and how to find one.
16 June 2026
There is so much more that goes into the choice of a university today than even a decade ago. International students especially have the whole world to choose from. And while before students were more focused on the theoretical benefits of a certain degree, today, with so many less traditional options for learning (online, via social media, private tutoring, etc.), there is a lot more a traditional institution has to offer, especially given the price of formal education.
03 June 2026
One thing we keep repeating throughout our study abroad articles is this: being an international student can be a great, and often life-changing experience. But what is stopping a lot of students from experiencing international study is often not something abstract like the fear of the unknown, but something very practical and tangible: the cost. Luckily, there are quite a few scholarships aimed specifically at international students.
06 May 2026
Imagine your kid's school bans junk food in the cafeteria. That's good, right? But what if they also start monitoring what you have packed for your child's lunch? No more sugary drinks, processed snacks, fried foods, and sweets. So, those little treats you were adding to your kid's lunch to cheer them up, or a familiar snack from home, are no longer allowed. This is not an imaginary situation but the reality for parents in Abu Dhabi.
05 May 2026
Moving to a new country comes with lots of costs. We explore a lot of these in our living abroad guides. But some costs are more abstract and don't really reveal themselves until much later. This is often the case with the relationships that we “leave behind” back home.
04 May 2026
Just a few years ago, living in a big city seemed to be a direct association with success. And so was moving to a big city. And a lot of expats, when relocating, were more driven towards big cities for this reason too. But things seem to be changing. If social media is to be believed (and yes, this is very debatable), a lot of people now prefer, given the choice, to settle away from the noise of a big city. Smaller sustainable communities are starting to emerge.
22 April 2026
We often talk about how difficult relocation can be for adults. You lose connections with friends and sometimes even family, you suffer from language fatigue, you need to adapt to a completely new way of life. This can be really hard on adults. But then what about children?
21 April 2026
So you've decided to have a roommate. As an expat, this is often a reasonable idea. You are in a new place, you want to save money, and looking for an apartment on your own may seem a bit intimidating. But how do you go about looking for a roommate? More importantly, how do you go about it safely and efficiently?
04 March 2026
Expat families encounter many surprises. One of them is that the school calendar used back home may be entirely different from that in your new destination. It may seem more logical for the academic year to be universal. But this is not the case: school schedules are affected by a lot of things: climate, historical traditions, cultural norms, and more.
27 February 2026
For many people, Christmas and New Year are familiar markers of the year, shaped by traditions they have grown up with. But not everyone shares the same cultural calendar. For expats from countries where Christmas is not widely celebrated, living in a place where the holiday dominates public and social life can be surprisingly disorienting. Decorations, music, and rituals suddenly become unavoidable, turning a festive season into a reminder of cultural distance. In this article, we look at how expats experience this contrast and how they learn to adapt when Christmas is not their holiday.
18 December 2025Holidays abroad can be magical, unless you are an expat and you're alone. I remember my first Christmas in China, a time that should have been filled with new impressions but was instead one of the loneliest weeks in my entire life abroad. In this article, we will not be getting into the reasons why you may be feeling lonely this Christmas. Instead, we will get right into the "what to do".
17 December 2025
If you'd like to ease into Slow December without reading the full article, here are a few simple, low-pressure ideas for expats: give yourself one full day with no obligations at all, slow down one everyday activity such as walking, eating, talking, or drinking your coffee, recreate a small holiday ritual from home that brings comfort, say no to at least one holiday invitation without guilt or explanations, and allow 2026 to remain a blank page for now. December has a way of insisting on our attention, doesn't it?
16 December 2025
Expat life can be complicated for a lot of different reasons. This is why it's always best not complicate it further with things that can be really simple. If you are looking for easy, no-hassle Christmas and New Year gifts that you can send to friends and family abroad, this is what we are covering today. What all of these gift ideas have in common: they are all digital, they are delivered instantly, and you won't be paying any customs fees. To make things interesting, we will alternate one rather conventional gift idea with something a bit more "out there", just to give you options. Let's go!
15 December 2025Activity
Were you in Kenya during the protests?
Hi all!I am writing an article for 鶹 and we are looking for testimonies from expats who witnessed the protests or are currently in Kenya. Please let me know if you would be willing to leave a comment. Thank you! Read More